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By the first day of June, she’d discovered that both guys she’d seen were playing her and weren’t actually serious about dating at all. We live in an era of ghosting and constant prospect shuffling, where nothing is certain; people come and go all the time. My favorite first few dates are really the simplest.
If you’re into the adventure of it all and don’t feel any stress while dating, cool! But if you want an additional filter, before you begin to make major accommodations for anyone, I want you to make sure those people are around to stay by setting boundaries. A drink in a cool setting; meet a guy for happy hour, right after work, someplace that isn’t a headache to get to, or grab an 8 p.m.
coffee around the block from your apartment in a comfortable outfit.
See if you have enough to talk about two or three times, and he wants to see you a third, before you start changing your schedule and investing in the odds ’n’ ends of you, he won’t even notice you’re trying to keep it low-key on purpose.
After talking to hundreds of men at this point in my career (and life), I’ve seen the view from the other side; they talk themselves out of women they like as often as they talk themselves into them.
This means you can’t sit back and do nothing á la believe a guy who is into you will always contact you first.
Letting guys plan dates is one of the first I’d get rid of.
Men, who typically tell me they’re spontaneous and easygoing, would feel a lot less pressure if women gave some suggestions.
If your allure lies totally in “the game” and being unavailable, a player will stop chasing you when you’re no longer running.While I don’t believe men who like you will always call or text you, I If I had a nickel for every guy who’s told me, “I’m not a good planner,” then I’d be rich.Women, on the other hand, are typically able to tell me five events they’d like to hit in the next two weeks.You should see the following: If a guy isn’t fully interested in you for whatever reason, whether timing-related or he’s just decided it’s a no-go, he will respond to your text by putting you off — or not responding at all.That’s fine; you’ve saved yourself time, and can move on to other prospects.