Stories about dating violence
In fact, a recent study from the Center for Innovative Public Health Research reveals that two in five girls between the ages of 14 and 20 have experienced physical, sexual, or psychological/emotional violence from someone they've dated.And according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, approximately 1 in 10 high schoolers has been purposely hit, slapped, or physically hurt by a boyfriend or a girlfriend (because, yes, girls can be the abusers, too).For some, these intense new feelings can lead to controlling or obsessive behaviors, and sometimes they take a turn for the worse.As anyone who's been there knows, it can be hard to break away, even when your gut tells you that things are not OK.But an act doesn't have to be physically violent in order to be unhealthy, especially since, as Dr. Take Chloe's boyfriend, who started out "perfect." Soon, though, he became controlling and jealous, quick to get angry, and, of course, terrifyingly violent. Red flags include constant texting or showing up uninvited when you're hanging out with friends, wanting to dictate what you wear or who you talk to, checking your phone or asking for your passwords, isolating you from your friends or family, and threatening you in any way."Even a joking ' I'm going to send this horribly unflattering picture of you to everyone' is a threat," Bruno says."A lot of girls who have been assaulted within the dating context aren't sure the word the other person," says Colby Bruno, an attorney at the nonprofit Victim Rights Law Center, which works with many teenage victims of sexual violence.
Would they believe Ali hadn't "asked for it," as her friend said she had?
"And I loved him."Chloe no longer recognized the girl she'd become.
Eventually she found the courage to break up with Josh, but agreed to stay friends.
Ali, 22, says she was 17 when a friend sexually assaulted her out of the blue.
"The next day he texted me, ' Did you tell anyone what happened? She hadn't reported the incident, and wouldn't, for almost a year. She was embarrassed, plus she knew they'd make her press charges, and she wasn't sure she was up for that.