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I feel that you're likely pretty young which is why you're kind of going with a fantasy or at least not really understanding the situation you're really trying to get into here..is not about you and her..you understand that? on the one hand, I like her and I don't want her to feel alone going through this rough time. Then again, I sure as hell don't want to be a step-dad right now. So my plan is to keep seeing her, but telling her that I can sit the kid once in a while, but sure as hell won't play Daddy.

do you get that you are not the priority and cannot be in the dynamic of this situation? Anyways, this guy is aggressively trying to make her get an abortion. She is broke, from a broke family, so she'd have to get financial support from him and the state too. Easy in theory, I'm just afraid of where this could potentially go.

on the one hand, I like her and I don't want her to feel alone going through this rough time. Then again, I sure as hell don't want to be a step-dad right now. So my plan is to keep seeing her, but telling her that I can sit the kid once in a while, but sure as hell won't play Daddy.

Ask her why she'd want to keep a kid who reminded her daily of how stupid she had been getting knocked up by a jerk. You're a better man than I am Failboy..or just extremely dumb for even wanting to stick around!

But then again, this is not the norm everywhere, nor is it the only possibility.

you'll be the new bf that's with her while everyone's trying to hunt down the jerk and she's "confused" and "overwhelmed"...where do you fit into that equation? My advice to you is that you've only been seeing this girl for two dates...that's nothing. Any women round her ever got impregnated by an *******, then dated a good guy while being pregnant and still looking normal? You will end up getting dragged into a situation that just doesn't make sense.

I know how emotions can feel and how compelling that is but trust me that isn't the whole pie, you can't determine a lot about a relationship or the potential in two days. For once I get on a 2nd date since my ex broke up with me. Now the issue is this: The guy who impregnated her is a complete douche. If you feel tied to her now, how do you think you BOTH will feel if see her for 3--6 months and are having sex with her? Your choices at that point will either be to (a) walk away from her completely, or (b) put in a lot of your energy to take care of her and her baby. Even CONSIDERING to continue to date her is completely insane. on the one hand, I like her and I don't want her to feel alone going through this rough time. Then again, I sure as hell don't want to be a step-dad right now. So my plan is to keep seeing her, but telling her that I can sit the kid once in a while, but sure as hell won't play Daddy.

Pregnant women can go through some drastic emotional mood swings to say the least (I'd recommend you look this up and do some research) and there are likely many other things involved with the pregnancy aspect itself that may be entirely foreign to you, so I'd highly recommend doing research to educate yourself on that.

Personally I don't even know a lot about it never having kids or dating a pregnant woman before so that would be my first move.

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