Dating without drama by paige parker
Is he planning on getting serious or is he just having fun?Because if we’re not on the same page I need to move on.”It’s at this point when many women make one of the biggest dating mistakes: asking him what he's thinking or pressuring him to define the relationship."These tips are all well and good, but why should we have to do all the work? (As I mentioned in Tip #2, they’re too busy living in the moment! You don't have to play games, turn off your feelings or act like a robot to "lure" a man.
You won't spend another night alone, crying or waiting by the phone. You will get out of your own way and allow yourself to have a successful relationship.
A Reverse Ultimatum is the kindest and most efficient way of accomplishing this goal.
You start the inevitable process - the fact that he will lose you if he doesn't commit - with much greater subtlety. You won't insult him or make demands when he's unwilling to surrender.
In a perfect world, commitments would never be a struggle!
No one wants their beloved to feel cornered into a commitment!