Dating persian american men
I am asking in general, from guys with experience..do the differ from white girls? I don't think they expect more or less than white girls.
In my experience if she is young and the parents are conservative... This one doesnt seem to hold either trait, although I dont take her to crap places either as I prefer the nicer joints.
The MOST RESPONSIBLE things for parents to do is to teach whatever values they choose, but to also “keep it real” and not ignore things in the hopes that they just won’t exist or happen. It’s difficult to change stereotypes that have been around for decades or centuries perhaps.
Talking to our kids with honesty and allowing them to open up to us is the BEST way for us to protect them and INFORM them. But, the one thing that you can control is your own behavior. Iranian men get a bad rap for being male chauvinistic, abusive, possessive, jealous, insecure, hairy, fixated on jokes related to bowel movements, and it goes on and on.
To all my more “mature” readers…come on now…think back…you can remember being exactly like that too, even if you were forced to repress these feelings and NOT act on them.
Whether or not we establish barriers (social, cultural, familial), teenagers will be teenagers and they will do what they want to do, often without our knowledge.
I am asking in general, from guys with experience..do the differ from white girls?
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From what I read already, they are very stuck up and have high standards. The Iranian American girl I dated had super controlling parents.
Persian-American, not religious, 26 yrs old, father not in the picture, mother is-havent met her yet.
My problem is that time and again I meet men who think Oh, she’s easy because she is ‘English’ and they then revert back to marrying Persian girls. I hope that many members of our community write in and share their thoughts as well, and I hope that some of them serve to provide evidence contrary to your assumptions.
Obviously internet dating is a minefield of predatory men who are only after one thing. Are we non Persian girls just for dating or bedding? I am, of course, not saying that your assumptions are incorrect.