It's my job as a matchmaker to find potential dates who don't have any of the dealbreaking qualities.But before I do that, I encourage singles to distinguish between preferences and dealbreakers in relationships.I will have full instructions for you next week on: 1. How to download the podcast I’ll also be introducing you to the other 3 women that will be part of Ask Women.But for now, here are some preview pics of them: I am so excited for you to get to know these girls and for them to educate you on the ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. David Steele of the Relationship Coaching Institute ( who taught me about being the chooser. I wanted to give a shout out to a few dating coaches whose wisdom influenced me the most and influenced many of the tips I share in my blog.As a matchmaker, I always ask my clients what their absolute dealbreakers are.
[Get the full interview with Hugh Jackman here] PATRICK DEMPSEY on the one thing women get wrong about men I think they sometimes underestimate our sensitivity. Such a tune and always a winner with the ladies.' Hmm, not since 1994 actually, Olly.So, before you jump into the dating pool, ask yourself these questions about each of your dealbreakers, and identify what really will destroy a deal: Once you've asked yourself these questions, commit to your dealbreakers and be aware of your preferences.Be open to those who may not have all the preferences—try new things on for size, and don't close yourself off to fabulous opportunities.My signature dish is black cod.' Sexy good in the kitchen? [Get the full interview with David Gandy here] USHER on what you don't know about men ' Less is more with men. When a guy’s zoning out, it’s because there’s too much information coming in. With the crew I go mountain biking with, there’s constant digging. Being a real gentleman is a worthy goal.' We couldn't agree more.[Get the full interview with Orlando Bloom here] ZAC EFFRON on telltale signs a first date is going well ' I think when it ends up going on longer than planned... You just don’t want it to end.' A date with Zac that never ends? [Get the full interview with Zac Effron here] HUGH JACKMAN on what makes someone marriage material ' It is a gut instinct.